Last week I talked about the way I think certain manners regarding food are absurd. However, those that know me know that I am a heavy rules follower. In my presentations I state that rules of the road are almost sacred and one should always, ALWAYS use their turn signal when changing lanes. My will, and love of rules, was tested last Thursday night.
On the way to the movie theater to view Wretches and Jabberers I noticed a line of cars backed up at the stop light that turns onto Baptist Church Road which is the road the theater is on. I was planning on being 15 minutes early, but the line of cars seemed to be moving at about one car per light cycle. At first I thought there must be an accident because the road rises towards the light and I could no see the intersection or turn light.
Slowly, painfully slow actually, I got closer and closer to the light. I saw no ambulances and no police cars so the back up of cars became mysterious. I could see the forward stop light and it was going green, however, my turn lane kept still. Every so often 2-3 cars would go through and eventually I got within five cars of the intersection.
From this point on I could see the light and I thought I was mistaken because the forward light would go green, but the turn light stayed red. Then, when the forward light went red the turn light stayed red. Never once did the turn light go green. The pedestrian light would change, but the turn light was red. What we had here was a rare occurrence of a malfunctioning light. Panic set in.
In this instance what is the right course of action? Cars started blaring their horns and all in all drivers were becoming irate. Whenever a car decided to break the rule of the red light the car behind would follow. It was all up to the 1st car in line to break that rule and time and time again it would take several light cycles before the first car's driver would make that decision to break the rule, but in this instance is it breaking the rule?
The light obviously was broken, but going through the red light at this intersection is dangerous due to the up slope of the road, and the thick stop light pole. Signs clearly state, "Left on green arrow only." Car after car went through and I was now the 2nd car in line. Soon, it would be my option. Would I wait the light out, or would I go through and willfully break a rule that is 100x more sacred than changing lanes with a turn signal? I still didn't know what I would do.
The driver in front of me began to panic. The driver behind me was having a major temper tantrum slamming the steering wheel and raising his hands as if to say, "Go you idiot, it's broke!" Cars behind started honking so the driver in front of me decided he was not going to break the rule and darted from the turn lane to the forward lanes. This sounds like a good way to avoid breaking the rules, but he did so with no turn signal and just about got rear ended by a big pick up truck that the driver didn't see, perhaps due to the stress of this odd situation.
Okay, so I saw what not to do. I was now the first car in line and it was my option. All lights on my side were red and there was a decent line of cars coming the other way. The light went green and those cars passed. Almost a quarter hour had passed since I got to the intersection of Gravois and Baptist Church and only one thing was separating me from the theater and that was rules. Red lights are important, and when I am at a race track there is no more important thing than to stop. When I race directed I stressed to drivers of all ages that when the red flag is out you stop. The rule is rigid, it's set in stone, it's pure and yet here I was considering breaking the rule.
I could see the driver behind me getting angrier so I decided to do it. I was going to live on the other side of the law. Would I be a public enemy? I didn't know, but I knew I wasn't going to be late and I was able to judge that no cars were coming so I did it. I broke the rule and made my way to the theater.
Since this event I have debated whether or not I actually broke the rules. If the rules are broken do they still apply? It's one thing to go through a yellow, or to unknowingly run a stop sign, but to make that conscious decision to go through a red is another thing. However, the situation was different and unique. Had I not broken the rule and stayed there, well, I'm sure I'd be quite hungry right now because I'd still be there waiting for the green.
Moving forward I will continue to talk about my love of rules and in my presentations I will still talk about my love of the turn signal. However, there will be a side of me I won't share and that is the day I decided to disregard the rules because the rules, on that day, experienced a failure.